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A Mother-Daughter Journey at Rock Valley College

At Rock Valley College, students come for all kinds of reasons, personal growth, fresh starts, new dreams but for mother-daughter duo Allie and Traci Carlson, their time at RVC has been a shared chapter of courage, connection, and rediscovery.

 

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At the heart of Rock Valley College鈥檚 campus, Allie and Traci Carlson stand side by side鈥攖wo generations, one incredible journey.

Allie Carlson arrived at RVC in 2023, eager to start her college journey. 鈥淩VC provides so many opportunities to get involved and meet other students and faculty members that I share similar interests with, and it has greatly helped me get out of my comfort zone!鈥 she says.

For Allie, starting college was a huge step after being homeschooled from kindergarten through high school and navigating life as a student with social anxiety. 鈥淎s someone who deals with AuDHD, Generalized Anxiety Disorder, and Social Anxiety Disorder, I was very nervous about making the transition from high school to college,鈥 she shares. 鈥淭hat being said, I am so grateful for how accommodating and encouraging RVC has been since the very beginning. All of my teachers that I鈥檝e had the pleasure of working with have been super supportive and understanding, making me feel very comfortable about contacting them if I experience any difficulties.鈥

Allie is pursuing her Associate of Arts degree in Media Studies and has enjoyed getting involved in different campus activities. One exciting experience was being part of an RVC commercial. 鈥淲orking with the marketing department was an absolute blast. I loved every second of it,鈥 Allie said. 鈥淲hen I was recording my part in the commercial, Brent Jepsen made me feel very comfortable, like I could just be myself and that he walked me through the process of exactly what he needed.鈥

Brent Jepsen, Multimedia Content Creator in RVC鈥檚 Marketing Department, shared, 鈥淎llie is a joy to be around and a talented actor! I had the pleasure of working with her on a recent RVC commercial for television and she far exceeded what we were looking for in the role. She brings a level of professionalism and thoughtfulness to each project she works on and it is clear that she has a bright future ahead of her!鈥

Traci Carlson, Allie鈥檚 mother, has a journey that looks different but is just as meaningful. For her, returning to college was the fulfillment of a goal she鈥檇 held for more than 30 years. She first attended college decades ago but put her education on pause to raise her family. After homeschooling Allie through high school, she realized it was finally time to return, not just to finish her degree, but to rediscover a part of herself. 鈥淎fter raising a family and homeschooling my daughter from kindergarten through high school graduation, I am happy to say I am finishing my last class and earning my Associate of Arts degree.鈥

Now completing her Associate of Arts with a focus on Human Services and Education, Traci reflected on returning to college as a non-traditional student. Traci said, 鈥淚 was worried I was going to be super self-conscious, and people weren鈥檛 going to like take me seriously or accept me sitting in class with a bunch of 19-year-olds. But that was not the case at all. RVC has provided me the opportunity to complete my degree in a welcoming and inclusive atmosphere. Their support is constant, their dedication unmatched. All my professors have been willing to take the time needed to help in whatever ways they can.鈥

Both Carlsons found themselves drawn to the service and leadership opportunities within Phi Theta Kappa.

For Traci, being a member of Phi Theta Kappa has always been a point of pride. 鈥淚t鈥檚 just always been something I鈥檝e been very proud of, because it truly is earned and it takes a lot to be a member. You have to really be academically aware and strive for good academic excellence. And for years I鈥檝e had very old Phi Theta Kappa sweatshirts and coffee mugs and trivets and things,鈥 she said.

One particularly memorable PTK moment was participating in the college鈥檚 time capsule opening. 鈥淧hi Theta Kappa had made a time capsule 25 years ago, and we just recently opened it. It was very exciting seeing all that was in there, and it was a big deal,鈥 Traci said. 鈥淭here was also a video cassette tape that was made by the people who originally did the time capsule when they were first closing it up,鈥 Allie added. 鈥淪o, we played that, and we made sure to preserve that video to make sure it stays good and intact, and it was shockingly high quality.鈥

One of their most memorable experiences came in a Speech-131 class they decided to take together. Both Allie and Traci were nervous about taking a public speaking class. 鈥淲e both had a lot of anxiety having to take speech, so we decided to team up and support each other,鈥 Traci recalls. 鈥淚t has been a fun and unforgettable experience that most people would never get to know.鈥 Allie adds, 鈥淲e were able to laugh through the nerves and grow together.鈥

Their Speech-131 instructor, Amanda Kieper, spoke highly of their presence in the classroom. 鈥淭raci and Allie Carlson are a dynamic and unforgettable mother-daughter duo. They are a teacher's dream. Each and every class they are fully invested and lean into the moment, the lesson, and the possibility of transformation. They added so much value to the classroom culture that all of us were better because of them.鈥

Now approaching graduation, Allie plans to transfer to Northern Illinois University to continue studying media and television production. Traci hopes to remain close to the education world, possibly work with neurodivergent students, those needing accommodations or possibly those right at RVC.

When they reflect on their time at Rock Valley, both speak with deep gratitude. 鈥淩VC gave me space to grow, fail, try again, and find my people. I discovered who I am here.鈥 Traci adds, 鈥淚t鈥檚 never too late to go back to school. This journey has been everything I hoped for鈥攁nd more.鈥

Together, Allie and Traci have shown that learning doesn鈥檛 have an age limit and that sometimes, the most meaningful education comes from walking the path together.